Rapid Eye Movement or REM sleep is in a category of its own. REM sleep is also called paradoxical sleep because the brain is very active, yet the skeletal muscles are paralyzed. Brainwaves during REM are most similar to wake in that they are fast and low amplitude or short. This is why we can have really complex, story like dreams. Thankfully, our skeletal muscles are paralyzed so we can’t act out our dreams. There is one rare sleep disorder called REM Behavior Disorder in which the skeletal muscles aren’t paralyzed, and people do act out their dreams, which can be a danger both to themselves and others. (More on that in another article!)
In normal healthy sleepers about 20% of their total sleep is REM. REM provides a couple very important functions. First, REM is very important for learning and memory. When we learn something during the day, it’s during REM sleep that the new information is incorporated into our overall understanding of that topic. The other important role of REM is in emotional regulation. It helps us remember things, but also prunes the emotional charge of the memory. People who have PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) have altered REM, so the emotional aspect of the traumatic experience does not fade with time.
These functions are also why it’s particularly important for children to get the recommended amount of sleep. If they are sleep deprived, they will get less REM, which can translate into learning and behavior problems during the day.